Wednesday, August 11, 2021

The Potato, The Egg & The Coffee Bean

 


A potato, an egg and a coffee bean walk into a bar; doesn’t this sound like the start of a good joke? While listening to a short podcast on the Morning Moxie titled: A New Way to Respond to Old Problems by Joyce Meyer, I heard her speak about this analogy and it stuck to me. In the message, she talked about three types of people: the potato, the egg and the coffee bean and how they each respond to adversity. In their situation, the adversity was the boiling water they were placed into. Now let’s check out each person’s response:

The Potato: for anyone that is a fan of potatoes, whether irish or sweet, one thing you’d definitely know is that when they’re uncooked, they’re hard. But despite their hardness, when you put them into a pot of boiling water, after a period of time, they become soft and squishy. The potato represents those that face challenges and cave to those challenges. When faced with a mountain or any challenge, they become all soft and squishy like the disciples when faced with a storm (Matt. 8:23-27); adversities and mountains scare them away regardless of their size. These are the people described in Prov. 24:10 (MSG): “If you fall to pieces in a crisis, there wasn’t much to you in the first place”. See Peter (aka the Rock), Mr. Hard Guy, they asked him if he knew Jesus and he went soft (Luke 22:54-62).

The Egg: the egg represents those that go into adversity soft and timid but come out hard and strong. They lose all their softness and become battle hardened. Seems good, right? Wrong. The problem with responding to adversity this way is that you become harsh and bitter and may end up finding it difficult to love others the way God expects us to love our neighbors (Mark 12:31, I Cor. 13:13). This hardness can also result in stubbornness (Ex. 10:20). Check out Pharoah, he went through adversity and continued to harden his heart (Ex. 7:13) and as a result of it, his people suffered numerous losses even to the point of losing their first born son (Ex. 7 – 11). God doesn’t want us to have a hardened heart (Ps 51:17, Eze. 36:26).

The Coffee Bean: these are the people that go into the boiling water (adversity) but they don’t allow it define them. Instead, they take it and create something new; in the case of the bean, coffee. Adversity drives them to live a life of impact, a life that brings people to God and shines so bright that people glorify God (Matt. 5:16). In the middle of adversity, they learn to abase and abound (Phil. 4:12). Though the storms of life blow, they tighten their belt, adjust their armor and stand (Eph. 6:13-18). These people know that there will always be problems in life (John 16:33) but regardless of the size of the mountain, they gat this (Phil. 4:13)! They also understand that the problem is but for a season and purpose (Rom. 5:3-5) and that no matter the size of the mountain, God will not give them more than they can handle (I Cor. 10:13). They also know that it is working together for their good (Rom. 8:28)

As we go about the rest of the week, I charge us all to be like the coffee bean or as Bruce Lee said: “be water, my friend”. God will neither leave you nor forsake you (Deut. 31:6) and remember through it all: we are more than conquerors (Rom. 8:37)!


Photo cred: Potato, Egg & Coffee

Tuesday, August 3, 2021

Destiny Helpers

While reminiscing about my life journey and the obstacles I have overcome, the phrase ‘destiny helpers’ kept coming to mind. As I ruminated on it, it occurred to me that I wouldn’t have made the progress I have made thus far without these destiny helpers. “Destiny helpers are men and women whom God has positioned to help you in life”. It could be someone at work that speaks for you when you’re not in the room (performance appraisal) or someone that gives you counsel on a decision you’re struggling with. In other circumstances, they would even bless you with the resource you need but didn’t have. They are people that carry your matter more than you yourself would and they leave you bewildered as to why.

In the bible, there are so many people that were able to excel or experienced a breakthrough because they had people that carried their matter on their head. Take for example Queen Esther; at the start of her life, her uncle Mordecai helped her by taking care of her and training her (Esther 2:7) and much later in life, she then became the helper of the Israelites (Esther 4 & Esther 8). She came to the assistance of the Israelites despite the risk she faced. Another was the Shunamite woman, whom thanks to Elisha, was able to have a child after years of barrenness (II Kings 4:14-17). When you look at these people, you would notice that they ended up helping each other at different points in life. In the case of the Shunamite woman, she helped Elisha by providing him with accommodation (II Kings 4:9-10).

No matter who you are or your position in life, you will always need these people. Jesus had destiny helpers, his 12 disciples; through them, He was able to spread the gospel (Matthew 10, Mark 6:7-13). Elijah had Elisha whom assisted him, even as far as bringing water for Elijah to wash his hands (II Kings 3:11). Naaman had his servants, without them, his pride would have caused him to miss out on a life-changing miracle (II Kings 5:1-14); David had numerous destiny helpers but the one that stood out for me was Jonathan. That’s because Jonathan carried David’s matter on his head that he even sided with him against his father, who also happened to be the king (I Sam. 20). Later in life, David helped Mephibosheth, Jonathan's son (II Sam. 9). In the journey of life, you will meet these people at different points in your life; they could be people that you yourself helped in one form or the other when they were in need. Some of these people are there to either give you counsel and much needed direction or even provide a resource that you need; others would connect you with the right people or even train/mentor you in preparation for the next level. Ultimately, God is our helper (Ps. 46:1, Is 41:10-14) but there will be times He would send help in the form of a person and regardless of how they come, be grateful to have them.

As we commence this new month, this is my charge to you: reflect back on your life and think of times when people came through for you in different ways, especially when you least expected it and thank God for bringing each and every one of them your way. In closing, I would also like you to pray these prayer points: 

  1. Lord, let my destiny helper locate me. 
  2. Let my destiny helper not be helpless to help me.
  3. Thank you Lord for every destiny helper you have sent my way.

Declaration from NLP on Aug. 5th: The Wind of the Spirit is connecting me!


P.S. In case you are wondering about the second prayer point, read Esther 4:10-11, NKJV.

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Photo cred: Helper

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